Today, I saw a message in the circle of friends, which reads: Having two children, it is obvious that the second child is more difficult to bring than the boss. Do some babies really come to "repay", while some babies come to "debt collection"? In addition Below this message, my friend also assigned two pictures of her baby.
In fact, each baby's personality is different, which has caused some babies to bring some babies but not at all. Of course, there are definitely some differences between a baby who is good at bringing "reward" and a baby who is not good at bringing "debt".
Whether the baby is here to "repay" or "collect debt", you can know by looking at these three differences
1.No alarm and frequent alarm
① Babies who come to "reward" are rarely troublesome: some babies are especially easy to bring when they are born, sleep when they are full, rarely noisy, do not toss parents at night, and sleep all night by themselves at a certain age. When I grow up, I am particularly good at sleeping, and I hardly kick the quilt. Usually such a baby comes to "repay".
② Babies who are "collecting debts" will often be troublesome: Many babies who are not easy to bring along have a characteristic that they like to be troublesome. Whenever they want to sleep, they start crying. Not only that, these babies also I often get up in the middle of the night to play, and parents can't sleep well. It's very difficult to wean at midnight. When parents want to sleep, they are very energetic. When the parents don't want to sleep, they start to feel a little sleepy and slowly fall asleep. In addition, parents with such babies may feel particularly deprived.
2. Love to laugh and cry
① Babies who come to "repay for grace" generally love to laugh: laughter can bring warmth to others, and some babies are born with a special smile, often smiling at their parents. Such a baby can bring a lot of joy to the family, but also It will make people feel very happy. "The person who loves to laugh will not have bad luck." It is undeniable that this kind of baby must come to "repay".
② Babies who "collect debts" will cry more: crying will bring sorrow and pain. In addition to the baby's physical discomfort, parents will often feel very collapsed when facing super crying babies. Many of these babies cry because they don't like it. Sometimes parents don't understand what they mean, and they cry with a "wow", which is very helpless.
3. Be smart and playful
① Babies who come to "repay" are usually very smart and sensible: facing some "commands" of adults, some babies are particularly smart and sensible. Parents let them do whatever they want, sometimes they even care about themselves Mom and dad, transformed into "little warm men" and "caring little padded jackets". When they grow up, they rarely worry about their parents. Most of these babies come to "repay".
② Babies who are "collecting debts" are very fond of mischief: Some babies' families do not let him do anything, and the more he has to do, they have been "rebellious" than other children since childhood, and have their own ideas. Sometimes parents have a hard time packing things up, they mess up in minutes, often naughty and tricky, making parents exhausted. Although this kind of baby may seem smart and very opinionated, it will inevitably make parents feel that he is "collecting debt".
Whether babies come to "repay" or "collect debts", I believe that every parent has the most experience. Of course, no matter whether the babies come to "repay" or "collect debts", I believe they are the favorite darlings of parents.