Thousands of people at sea, fortunate to meet you.
In a person's life, there will be several friends. Although everyone rarely contacts each other, but because they share common hobbies, they will care about each other. And the best way to deepen friendship between friends has not been seen for a long time. Imagine that if the other party does not treat you as a friend, no one will take the initiative to invite you to dinner.
However, the relationship between people is not as solid as it usually seems. There are some things that friends can't do, and some things can't be said. Once said and done, the relationship between the two will gradually become bad because of these breaks, and gradually they will no longer be connected.
Therefore, when people invite you to dinner, keep in mind that "these things" can not be done, so as to avoid fate in the future.
Don't offer to drink
Alcohol is used for the purpose of promoting happiness. In ancient times, there was a saying that "no wine can not be served", but in modern society, it is not uncommon for people to drink alcohol. Therefore, in ordinary communication, people have rarely used alcohol to draw closer to each other's relationship. Because drinking accidents, once a very good friend turned against each other, not a minority.
Nowadays, no one wants to take the initiative to cause trouble. A friend invites you to dinner. Maybe you just want to chat. But when you sit down, you ask for a drink. The other person thinks that if you do n’t agree with you, you will feel stingy. I can't afford to lose face, but if I promise you something will happen, I will take responsibility.
Then, after one or two times, the other party feels that you are so addicted to alcohol, and you don't want to invite you to dinner.
Don't take the initiative to order
Pay attention to the dining table, the guest is at his discretion. This is a way of respecting people. If you go to the dining table, you take the initiative to take the menu to order, and it will appear that you are not taken seriously by the person who invited you to eat. This approach will make the other party feel awkward, but the other party is inconvenient to say anything. Therefore, the embarrassing meal at the beginning is not good.
When friends are together, they are happy and happy. Everyone shares their experiences and progresses together. When they are separated, they say they have time to reunite next time, but because they do n’t respect each other ’s approach, they will not tell you again when they leave, because they have time to reunite because your approach has completely opened up The distance of each other.
Don't take the initiative
The dish that has just come up may be our favorite food, but with friends, as soon as the dish comes up, you pick up chopsticks and take a bite. In the eyes of the other party, you must be a selfish person. Your You only see yourself, you can't see others. After eating, if you still say that this dish is not delicious, it will even cause disgust to others.
Eating with others, no matter whether the dishes are good or not, should not be evaluated at the dinner table, no matter how you eat, you must keep the pace with the owner. If you eat with anyone like this, you will have no friends. If you want to find someone to help you, you will not find it. Because of your selfishness, others are no longer willing to approach you again.
Don't always like to ask
Everyone has their own life. When life is not smooth, people always like to express emotions. The reason why people need to express emotions in the circle of friends is because these things are inconvenient to tell others. Therefore, when you meet, don't be emotional about the other person, behave very curious.
No one wants to be asked by others, and no one wants to answer other people's questions that are difficult to answer. Therefore, if others are unwilling to tell you, don't break the casserole and ask in the end. Asking about the other person's annoyance will only make the other person no longer want to see you, and your relationship will become farther and farther.
It can be seen that, at the dinner table, people who love to do these things are no wonder that their popularity is getting worse and worse, no one wants to deal with it,
For example, I always like to offer to drink, I always like to order, I always like to pinch, and I always like to ask. In fact, this will make others feel that you have no literacy and will look down on you. Even if you are good friends, if you always love to do these things, it will make others unhappy and unwilling to deal with you more.
Especially when someone invites you to dinner, you need to pay attention to these details and try not to do it, because you have to know that this informal approach is often the most offensive. Sometimes we have to learn how to think differently. If it ’s your dinner, when others do that, what do you think?
I'm afraid it's your turn to meet such a person. The next time you eat, you don't want to call him.
Anyway, everyone has their own personality and way of living. Don't take your own standards as a measure of others. When people do what they should do, they wo n’t be without fate, but when they do things they should n’t, they will be without fate.