As the saying goes, Ren Shan is deceived and Ma Shan is riding. The kind person who asks for himself and does not demand for others is always the most disadvantaged person.
Especially when encountering some "unkind" people, kindness also becomes a disadvantage that others can take advantage of. If you are not careful, you will cause troubles and even trouble for yourself.
Good people, don't go too close to people with good intentions.
Whether a person has a plan or not, it is enough to watch him speak a sentence or two, and it is not even necessary to listen to what he says. Just observe the eyes and face when he speaks, and through these micro-expressions, you can know about it.
Ingenious people are best at ignoring pretending to be confused. The false words are empty-mouthed and come out as if they were true, but it is also because of this seemingly affectionate speech that has no affection, even if it is cleverly disguised, It's hard to really touch someone's heart.
A kind person has one of his biggest shortcomings: he has a soft ear, he is the least able to see others suffer, he is the least able to listen to others' grievances, and he is the least adept at pushing back and forth. When he encounters something, he has to say one thing and be straightforward. Even more, it is better to do more than to go around the corner like a person with intent.
In the Department of Acupuncture, Xiaoguang and Mingming are a group of partners. Each time they send a task, they are a group of two people. Although there is a division of labor, Xiaoguang always tries to do less work, but he always does more. people.
For patients, those who are intractable and have complicated conditions, Xiaoguang often pushes it to Mingming when he says "more professional". As for the holidays, Xiaoguang always uses various excuses to leave early. And it is clear that a person is sticking to it.
Even the patients who have gone several times can see that Xiaoguang is always taking advantage of Mingming all the time, arguing in front of the chief doctor for Mingming. But Mingming never explained anything, but in the end, when the chief doctor needed to form a team, he chose Mingming without hesitation.
For those who are deliberate, kind people, no matter how much they argue, they cannot win. Simply, make a real achievement, so that you can let others' strategies fail and nowhere to work.
Good people, don't go too close to those who are profitable.